Just Talk
You ever wondered why most often than not...when a few gay men gather together for party, a drop by...or simply just out...the topic usually centers around MEN...either being single or not being able to find a good man...or both...just like women we too lament...lately I've dismissed myself from these types of topics...because I hear the same cry over and over again...and usually get myself in trouble for my opinion...which doesn't settle with most sensibilities...
I be like...nigga please...firstly you need to drop your standards and settle...status is nothing compared to lonliness...I don't mean settle for a drug addict or a no good for nothing person not looking to elevate and evolve himself...but I do mean...he doesn't have to have house but an apartment, a mercedes or bmw but a pinto, he doesn't have to make six figures...five would do...Think about it...come with me now...what is it you really want...someone to respect you...someone to cuddle with when you come home at night from a long days work, a cooked meal once in a while, the warm exciting feeling of someone next to you in the night, someone to call your own...a never ending romance...to travel, to experience, to grow old with...all of these things are possible...but we go into these relationships with too much baggage and lose sight of what truly matters...
So when I hear....
He said…, You said…, drama silhouetted the space…, anger and hurt permeates the soul…, tears raining the face…, he said…you said…it’s over…you pack your shit and your memories and you walk out the door…forever
I start to stepping...It’s sad but happy time…for in the end you still have you…suck it up and then find a date...lol!
QUOTE OF THE DAY
Happiness depends upon ourselves. -Aristotle
I be like...nigga please...firstly you need to drop your standards and settle...status is nothing compared to lonliness...I don't mean settle for a drug addict or a no good for nothing person not looking to elevate and evolve himself...but I do mean...he doesn't have to have house but an apartment, a mercedes or bmw but a pinto, he doesn't have to make six figures...five would do...Think about it...come with me now...what is it you really want...someone to respect you...someone to cuddle with when you come home at night from a long days work, a cooked meal once in a while, the warm exciting feeling of someone next to you in the night, someone to call your own...a never ending romance...to travel, to experience, to grow old with...all of these things are possible...but we go into these relationships with too much baggage and lose sight of what truly matters...
So when I hear....
He said…, You said…, drama silhouetted the space…, anger and hurt permeates the soul…, tears raining the face…, he said…you said…it’s over…you pack your shit and your memories and you walk out the door…forever
I start to stepping...It’s sad but happy time…for in the end you still have you…suck it up and then find a date...lol!
QUOTE OF THE DAY
Happiness depends upon ourselves. -Aristotle
posted by Da Jardin at 2:05 AM
1 Comments:
You have a good point. I know sometimes I can be rigid on my standards but by the end of the day I realize that noone, including myself is perfect. It just comes down to how much of the imperfections in a mate can you tolerate.
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